Believing volunteers will care for each other and for the poor. Care includes participating in deliberations when asked for it.

You sit down with  acquaintances and they ask your view on a dilemma. What might be the best choice in a precarious situation?

Each decision is causing damage.

Your story might inspire somebody else to find an answer. Listen to what others think about it. Put your view next to that of somebody else, not against it.  A choice should be as near as possible to the gospel of charity and common sense.